How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 3 (act sexy)

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BE BOLD :- Bold and sexy are close cousins. You can't be sexy if you're afraid try do anything wild or out of your comfort zone. To be sexy with your boyfriend, you can try being bold in the following ways:

»» If you're talking to him on the phone, surprise him with casual dirty talk. He'll be surprised and turned on by your sudden sexy mood.

»» Be open about what you want. If you're really in the mood for something, telling him what you crave. He'll respect you for sharing your true feelings and will be turned on in the process.

»» Be bold, but know when to strike. Surprising your boyfriend with something sexy is a plus, but trying to get it on when he has a bad cold or just isn't in the mood is a big no. Before you go in for the kill, ask yourself if your boyfriend is really in the mood for what you have to offer.

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BE SPONTANEOUS :- Some of the most sexy times you have with your boyfriend will be totally unplanned. Leave room for sexiness any time in your life, even if you're just having an ordinary dinner or watching a television show. Here are some ways to be spontaneously sexy:

»» If you're feeling sexy, take the initiative. Even if you're not in the middle of a sexy activity, let your man know by kissing or touching him in a subtle way. And if subtlety fails, try for some dirty talk to let him know what's on the table. He'll be more than just pleasantly surprised.

»» When he comes home from work, turn off all the lights, pull the shades, and lay naked on his desk. When he turns the lights on he will get a real surprise. However, do not do this unless you plan on further sexual activities. A guy is not going to be surprised by a naked girlfriend on his desk and then just walk away to read the newspaper.

»» Surprise him in public. Though you don't have to go for it in the back of your car or some untoward place, a special touch or kiss at the right time can show him that you're ready for more. And if you're isolated and not offending anyone, you make time for romance.

»» Remember that a good soldier is always prepared for battle. Be ready for sexy time any time. Try to keep your legs shaved, your skin washed, and your breath nice and minty as often as you can so you'll be ready to get it on.

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REMIND HIM OF HOW SEXY YOU ARE WHEN HE'S NOT AROUND :- You can be sexy with your boyfriend even when he's on the other side of the country. If you two are sexy while he's away, he'll be even more eager to return. Here are some ways to keep it sexy when he's far away:

»» If he is out of town, arrange a video chat with him. At some point during your conversation start doing a striptease. Don't take off too much too soon. Keep it a tease.

»» Send him sexy but tasteful text messages at night.

»» Give him a sexy picture to take with him, so he can be reminded of what he's missing.

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SHOW OFF YOUR SEXY BODY :- Even when you're not in the bedroom, your boyfriend should be thinking of what your body has to offer. Here are some ways to be sexy without having sex:

»» Walk in a sexy way that emphasizes your cleavage.

»» Take him clubbing or do another physical activity where you can really strut your stuff. He'll feel sexy just by looking at your body.

»» Dancing can be very erotic. Perhaps learn to belly dance or strip tease; this type of dancing will give you sexy poise and irresistible body confidence.

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HAVE SEXY FOOD :- There's a reason that "food" rhymes with "nude." The right meal can go a long way in helping you be sexy with your boyfriend.

»» Bake for him. Make your boyfriend something sweet like a cake or cookies, and then feed it to him in the nude. Your nudity will no doubt lead to further activities.

»» Give him chocolate. Kiss him while putting it into his mouth. Afterwards, simply walk away without saying anything. He will surely follow.

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TELL HIM HOW SEXY HE IS :- Don't be so busy acting sexy that you forget that your man is sexy too. Reinforce this by simply telling him exactly how sexy or manly he is.

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LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE :- Don't throw your appetiser, main course, and dessert on the table at once or your boyfriend will have a stomach ache. Instead, be subtle with your sexiness without throwing it all on the table. There's a difference between being sexy and being easy. Here are some ways to leave him wanting more:

»» Don't move right into sex after a make out session. Let him linger over your body so his passion builds.

»» Don't have sex with him every time he
wants to, unless you're in the mood, of course. Instead, be sexy when you're feeling right.

How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 2 (look sexy).

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HAVE A SEXY FACE :- In spite of what you may think, your face really is the first thing your boyfriend notices, so keep up a sexy appearance and the rest will follow.

»» If you feel comfortable wearing makeup, put on just enough to give your eyes a smoky look and your lips a nice luscious tint.

»» Give your boyfriend sexy glances. Just the look in your eyes can let him know how you really feel about him.


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WEAR UNDERWEAR THAT MAKES YOU
FEEL AND LOOK SEXY :- Knowing that you have it on can make you feel sexy, or showing your man a hint of what you have planned for later can make him excited for the rest of your night. Some sexy items include:

»» A thong, lacy underwear, a push up bra, pearls, a corset, knee-high socks, or spandex.

»» Avoid any uncomfortable fabrics that can lead to chafing, which is the opposite of sexy.


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KEEP IT SIMPLE :- You don't need to always wear designer thongs or teddies. As long as you wear something out of the norm that shows more skin, your man will think it's sexy that you're wearing it for his benefit.

»» Don't wear anything so elaborate that it will be impossible to remove. This may lead to frustration and other mishaps in the bedroom.


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LOOK PROVOCATIVE NOT TRASHY :- If your clothes are revealing more than they're hiding, your boyfriend will be embarrassed to be seen with you instead of turned on.

»» Make sure your dresses and skirts are like a good story,short enough to keep things interesting, but long enough to cover everything.

»» It's good to show a little cleavage, but not so much that most of your chest is exposed.

»» Showing a little bit of bra strap can be sexy, but exposing your entire bra is too much.


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HAVE SEXY FEET AND HANDS :- Care for your other extremities so your man will be even more excited by you.

»» Take care of your hands and fingernails so your man will be turned on when he holds them.

»» Keep your feet nice and fresh so you smell sexy in the bedroom.

How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 1 (Think sexy)

[ Understand that some of the things above (waiting for him naked, etc) are for people that are in a comfortable and sexual relationship. If you've only ever pecked on the lips, don't try that (yet).]

You love your boyfriend, but you're in a tricky situation. After the first few months of passion, the flames of love have been reduced to embers, and you're struggling to find a way to stay sexy. To keep things interesting, you have to embrace sexy as a way of life and learn to think sexy, act sexy, and look sexy. Read on to learn how to bring your sexy back.

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LOVE YOUR LOOKS :- If you think you look sexy, your boyfriend will think so, too. Instead of asking him for reinforcement about your looks, be proud to show off your beautiful face and body.

»» Pick at least three attributes you love about yourself, and show 'em off. If you love your legs, wear a shorter skirt, and if you think your arms are to die for, expose them in the perfect tank top.

»» Have fun with your body. Dance in front of the mirror to your favourite song, and you'll see how much fun it is to inhabit your body.

»» Be healthy. Eating right and exercising can have a positive impact on the way you think about yourself. Exercise can also be an opportunity to do something sexy with your boyfriend, like taking dance lessons.

»» Pay attention to the way you talk about your body. If you're wearing a new dress, instead of asking your boyfriend, "Do I look okay in this?" tell him, "Don't I look fabulous in this?" He'll be turned on by your love for your looks.

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BE CONFIDENT :- There's nothing sexier than showing your man how confident you are. Instead of spending time telling you that you're amazing, he'll be busy loving your natural ease with yourself, which will make you look even more sexy. Here are some ways to be confident:

»» Be aware of the things that make you a beautiful, unique, and talented individual. When you're having doubts, remind yourself of these qualities. It may even help to write them down.

»» Be confident to a point. Part of confidence is accepting that you are a flawed individual. You're already awesome, but there's always room for improvement. Your boyfriend will be impressed not only by your confidence, but by how comfortable you are in admitting you're not perfect.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

May everything happy and everything bright be mine on my birthday from morning till night. And then through the year may the same thing hold true so that each day is filled with life's best things for me!

»» HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME ««

How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 2 (Going the extra mile)

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SHOW A LITTLE SURPRISE AFFECTION :-
With guys, a little affection goes a long way, but that still doesn't mean that guys don't like it. Give him surprise kisses or surprise compliments, things that you would not normally do. It will show him that you are paying attention and actively caring for him and the relationship.

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GIVE HIM A LONG KISS ONCE A DAY :- However, don't stand there with a timer, but get a feeling for the time by experimenting alone beforehand. Kiss him on different places of his body to signal different moods.

»» A kiss on the back of the neck or behind the ear is a very intimate kiss. Get ready to have a moment!

»» A kiss on the cheek or the back of the hand is a very nurturing kiss. He'll be sure to feel warm and looked after.

»» A kiss on the mouth is one of the
surest ways to communicate your love. Kiss him gently, look into his eyes, and smile.

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GIVE HIM A LONG HUG EVERY ONCE IN A
WHILE :- Once again, don't use a timer and don't pat his back, but try to whisper "I love you" in his ears. If your boyfriend is down in the dumps about something, a warm hug will feel reassuring.

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FOR OLDER WOMEN, BE SURE TO DRESS
A LITTLE SEXY SO OFTEN :- Be sexy when it's just you two together in private. Go out and buy some sexy lingerie and give him a little show. Let him know that he still turns you on. Have a plan, since by being sexy, you just may turn him on. Know what you are going to do next.

»» Remember, especially when you're out in public, to be a lady. A sexy outfit in private is the stuff of his dreams, but no guy wants to share his girlfriend.

»» Act out a scene from a movie. Take one of his favourite movies, play the part, and make it a little sexy. He should be laughing and then crying for joy.

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BE SURE TO BE THERÉ FOR HIM IN
PERSON :- In our internet age, it's so fast and easy to connect with someone in person without even being in the same place, together. Make sure your relationship is grounded in real-life interactions and aided by the internet, instead of the other way around.

»» You can never be shy with him or he might get the wrong message. Be with him and get really comfortable in the beginning of the relationship and it shouldn't be a problem.

»» Don't forget to talk on the phone. Talking is different from texting. Even if your boyfriend isn't the most talkative person in the world, it's a good idea to talk a little bit each day. This will help build a connection and make him want to continue that intimacy that you showed with him in the beginning.

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PLAY TOGETHER :- Take a day off. Take
advantage of your new found freedom, and live like you've got one day to love.

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May your sunday be brighter than your past. May you come across with lots Of
adventure and enjoyment so that you wait for the next sunday to come so that you can enjoy it to the core. Have an exciting sunday blog visitors!

How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 1 (Building Love Through Actions).

Do you wonder if your boyfriend is falling away from you? Or do you feel like he's just not as interested in you as when you first met? Or maybe you just want to be the best girlfriend you can be. Here are some steps to take to make your boyfriend love you more.


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 FIND A BALANCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP :- Relationships are all about finding balance. Balance will help you stay in love with each other, and should keep your boyfriend from feeling suffocated, a common complaint of guys. Focus on finding a balance between the following three ideas:

 »» ROUTINE AND SPONTANEITY : Remember to make a fun routine out of some of the things you and your boyfriend love to do, but remember to switch it up. Friday movies are great, but so is going to monster truck race, even if it interrupts your normal routine.

 »» LOVE AND LUST : Love is selfless, timeless, and forgiving. Lust is selfish, brief, and unforgiving. In a relationship, remember to give, even as you take. Do things that satisfy your desires, but make sure the other person's desires are satisfied, too.

 »» SPEAKING AND LISTENING : Take the time to listen as much to your boyfriend as you talk at him. He may need to be taught things from time to time, but he probably knows plenty that he can teach you, too. Remember the saying: "The foolish man speaks; the wise man listens."


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 MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS TIME TO HIMSELF :- Guys are naturally independent, so give him some space by not always being on his back about things. No one likes to be constantly watched or hovered over. Go out with some girlfriends while he's out with his boys to get your mind off things. Guys tend to relieve stress and worries when talking to their friends, just like girls: Warrior Adventure Quest let the healing begin.

 »» THIS SHOWS HIM THAT YOU TRUST HIM : If you let him know he's earned your trust, he's actually less likely to throw that trust away. If you don't trust him to be responsible on his own, he could be more likely to betray that trust just because he resents not being trusted.


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 DO SOMETHING SPONTANEOUS THAT SHOWS YOUR LOVE :- The world is your oyster. Think about the things your boyfriend would love to do/get, and use that as a guide. If he's not expecting a gift or surprise, it's more likely to make a big impression.

 »» DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKE SPORTS? IS HE AN ADRENALINE JUNKY? Get the two of you a pair of tickets to a local football, or soccer game. Take him to an amusement park and ride as many roller coasters as you can in three hours.

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIEND THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC TYPE? IN TOUCH WITH HIS SENSITIVE SIDE? Get him romantic books like an old Philip Larkin or John Keats book of poetry and inscribe something on the cover: "With all my heart — the love that flows through these words is meant just for you."

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIENÐ THE OUTDOORSY TYPE? Take him for site seeing.


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 HANG WITH THE GUYS SOMETIMES :- A boyfriend loves having a girlfriend that can chill with the guys and still have fun. Joke around, be happy (even if you're not), and try to let loose. Just make sure you mingle and not flirt (that's a turn off)! And remember to give him space, a guy doesn't want to be hung on and smothered in front of his friends.


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 LEAVE A THOUGHTFULL SHORT NOTE IN HIS SHIRT POCKET :- Say something straight from the heart, and let him know how you always want to be there for him, no matter what. Make sure the note is short enough so that he doesn't feel obligated to write you something back if he's hassled by it. Try something like this:

 »» "HI DEAR, JUT WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW ABSOLUTELY SPECIAL YOU ARE TO ME : Every morning, when I wake up, I think about how lucky I am to have you. You make my head spin in a good way! I think I finally know what love is, thanks to you."

 »» "BOO! What's round and furry and handsome all over? You! Just joking around.... What can I say, you put me in such a happy mood all the time. I really hope I do for you what you do for me. Please tell me if that ever isn't the case. Thinking about you...."


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 MAKE A DATE AND GO SOMEWHERE YOU CAN TALK AND RELAX :- Have a quiet dinner, for example, and let your boyfriend know how much he means to you. Let him share some of his opinions and his feelings. Really listen to what he has to say, but offer comments to make the conversation flow. Clear some things up if you need to.

 »» GO ON DATES THAT YOU THINK HE WOULD APPRECIATE : Think of activities where you both can be close together such as: a trip to the zoo, a trip to an amusement park, a day trip to a nearby town, etc.