How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 1 (Building Love Through Actions).

Do you wonder if your boyfriend is falling away from you? Or do you feel like he's just not as interested in you as when you first met? Or maybe you just want to be the best girlfriend you can be. Here are some steps to take to make your boyfriend love you more.


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 FIND A BALANCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP :- Relationships are all about finding balance. Balance will help you stay in love with each other, and should keep your boyfriend from feeling suffocated, a common complaint of guys. Focus on finding a balance between the following three ideas:

 »» ROUTINE AND SPONTANEITY : Remember to make a fun routine out of some of the things you and your boyfriend love to do, but remember to switch it up. Friday movies are great, but so is going to monster truck race, even if it interrupts your normal routine.

 »» LOVE AND LUST : Love is selfless, timeless, and forgiving. Lust is selfish, brief, and unforgiving. In a relationship, remember to give, even as you take. Do things that satisfy your desires, but make sure the other person's desires are satisfied, too.

 »» SPEAKING AND LISTENING : Take the time to listen as much to your boyfriend as you talk at him. He may need to be taught things from time to time, but he probably knows plenty that he can teach you, too. Remember the saying: "The foolish man speaks; the wise man listens."


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 MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS TIME TO HIMSELF :- Guys are naturally independent, so give him some space by not always being on his back about things. No one likes to be constantly watched or hovered over. Go out with some girlfriends while he's out with his boys to get your mind off things. Guys tend to relieve stress and worries when talking to their friends, just like girls: Warrior Adventure Quest let the healing begin.

 »» THIS SHOWS HIM THAT YOU TRUST HIM : If you let him know he's earned your trust, he's actually less likely to throw that trust away. If you don't trust him to be responsible on his own, he could be more likely to betray that trust just because he resents not being trusted.


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 DO SOMETHING SPONTANEOUS THAT SHOWS YOUR LOVE :- The world is your oyster. Think about the things your boyfriend would love to do/get, and use that as a guide. If he's not expecting a gift or surprise, it's more likely to make a big impression.

 »» DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKE SPORTS? IS HE AN ADRENALINE JUNKY? Get the two of you a pair of tickets to a local football, or soccer game. Take him to an amusement park and ride as many roller coasters as you can in three hours.

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIEND THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC TYPE? IN TOUCH WITH HIS SENSITIVE SIDE? Get him romantic books like an old Philip Larkin or John Keats book of poetry and inscribe something on the cover: "With all my heart — the love that flows through these words is meant just for you."

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIENÐ THE OUTDOORSY TYPE? Take him for site seeing.


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 HANG WITH THE GUYS SOMETIMES :- A boyfriend loves having a girlfriend that can chill with the guys and still have fun. Joke around, be happy (even if you're not), and try to let loose. Just make sure you mingle and not flirt (that's a turn off)! And remember to give him space, a guy doesn't want to be hung on and smothered in front of his friends.


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 LEAVE A THOUGHTFULL SHORT NOTE IN HIS SHIRT POCKET :- Say something straight from the heart, and let him know how you always want to be there for him, no matter what. Make sure the note is short enough so that he doesn't feel obligated to write you something back if he's hassled by it. Try something like this:

 »» "HI DEAR, JUT WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW ABSOLUTELY SPECIAL YOU ARE TO ME : Every morning, when I wake up, I think about how lucky I am to have you. You make my head spin in a good way! I think I finally know what love is, thanks to you."

 »» "BOO! What's round and furry and handsome all over? You! Just joking around.... What can I say, you put me in such a happy mood all the time. I really hope I do for you what you do for me. Please tell me if that ever isn't the case. Thinking about you...."


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 MAKE A DATE AND GO SOMEWHERE YOU CAN TALK AND RELAX :- Have a quiet dinner, for example, and let your boyfriend know how much he means to you. Let him share some of his opinions and his feelings. Really listen to what he has to say, but offer comments to make the conversation flow. Clear some things up if you need to.

 »» GO ON DATES THAT YOU THINK HE WOULD APPRECIATE : Think of activities where you both can be close together such as: a trip to the zoo, a trip to an amusement park, a day trip to a nearby town, etc.