How to make a relationship last PART 3 ( keep moving forward )

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 FIND NEW INTERESTS TO PURSUE TOGETHER :- A relationship is like a shark, if it doesn’t move forward, it dies. You should find ways of keeping your relationship fresh so your love doesn’t become just a part of your routine. One way of doing this is to find new interests that you can pursue together, so you have something to be excited about as well as a shared passion.

 »» Take a weekly dance class together. This will give you some great exercise and will increase your passion for each other.

 »» Find a new hobby together. Try taking a painting or singing class, or find a new love for driving.

 »» Take a class together. Try learning a new language or taking a history class together.

 »» Train for a race together. This is a great way to get closer, whether you’re training for a 5K or a marathon.

 »» Do anything out of your comfort zones. Try dancing, driving, or even fishing. Doing something completely unfamiliar will bring you closer together.


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 KEEP IT FRESH IN THÉ BEDROOM :- If you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then you have to maintain a healthy sex life. Though your lovemaking may not be what it was in the beginning after five years together, you should still try new things in the bedroom so you’re still excited about making love with your partner and that everything you do still feels like an adventure.

 »» Make love in new positions. Don’t do the same old thing you’ve been doing, even if it works. You can even look up new positions together, which will be great for foreplay.

 »» Make love in new places. Don’t always go for the bedroom, try the couch, the kitchen table, or even check in to a hotel in the middle of the day.

 »» Try going to a sex store to pick up some kinky items to bring into bed.


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 TAKE A TRIP TO A NEW PLACE TOGETHER :- Though a vacation isn’t a good long- term solution to any relationship problems, taking a trip together can help take you out of your same old perspective and appreciate your love in a new way. Plus, planning a trip together will give you something new to look forward to.

 »» Plan the trip you’ve always wanted to take. If you’ve both been talking about going to Lagos together for the last seven months and you have the funds for it, it’s time to make your dreams a reality.

 »» Take a short day trip. Even driving an hour out to spend a day on the or the beach can make your relationship feel fresher.

 »» Take a second honeymoon. If you’re already married and had a honeymoon, take another honeymoon to commemorate your love.