How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 2 (Going the extra mile)

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SHOW A LITTLE SURPRISE AFFECTION :-
With guys, a little affection goes a long way, but that still doesn't mean that guys don't like it. Give him surprise kisses or surprise compliments, things that you would not normally do. It will show him that you are paying attention and actively caring for him and the relationship.

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GIVE HIM A LONG KISS ONCE A DAY :- However, don't stand there with a timer, but get a feeling for the time by experimenting alone beforehand. Kiss him on different places of his body to signal different moods.

»» A kiss on the back of the neck or behind the ear is a very intimate kiss. Get ready to have a moment!

»» A kiss on the cheek or the back of the hand is a very nurturing kiss. He'll be sure to feel warm and looked after.

»» A kiss on the mouth is one of the
surest ways to communicate your love. Kiss him gently, look into his eyes, and smile.

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GIVE HIM A LONG HUG EVERY ONCE IN A
WHILE :- Once again, don't use a timer and don't pat his back, but try to whisper "I love you" in his ears. If your boyfriend is down in the dumps about something, a warm hug will feel reassuring.

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FOR OLDER WOMEN, BE SURE TO DRESS
A LITTLE SEXY SO OFTEN :- Be sexy when it's just you two together in private. Go out and buy some sexy lingerie and give him a little show. Let him know that he still turns you on. Have a plan, since by being sexy, you just may turn him on. Know what you are going to do next.

»» Remember, especially when you're out in public, to be a lady. A sexy outfit in private is the stuff of his dreams, but no guy wants to share his girlfriend.

»» Act out a scene from a movie. Take one of his favourite movies, play the part, and make it a little sexy. He should be laughing and then crying for joy.

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BE SURE TO BE THERÉ FOR HIM IN
PERSON :- In our internet age, it's so fast and easy to connect with someone in person without even being in the same place, together. Make sure your relationship is grounded in real-life interactions and aided by the internet, instead of the other way around.

»» You can never be shy with him or he might get the wrong message. Be with him and get really comfortable in the beginning of the relationship and it shouldn't be a problem.

»» Don't forget to talk on the phone. Talking is different from texting. Even if your boyfriend isn't the most talkative person in the world, it's a good idea to talk a little bit each day. This will help build a connection and make him want to continue that intimacy that you showed with him in the beginning.

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PLAY TOGETHER :- Take a day off. Take
advantage of your new found freedom, and live like you've got one day to love.

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How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 1 (Building Love Through Actions).

Do you wonder if your boyfriend is falling away from you? Or do you feel like he's just not as interested in you as when you first met? Or maybe you just want to be the best girlfriend you can be. Here are some steps to take to make your boyfriend love you more.


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 FIND A BALANCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP :- Relationships are all about finding balance. Balance will help you stay in love with each other, and should keep your boyfriend from feeling suffocated, a common complaint of guys. Focus on finding a balance between the following three ideas:

 »» ROUTINE AND SPONTANEITY : Remember to make a fun routine out of some of the things you and your boyfriend love to do, but remember to switch it up. Friday movies are great, but so is going to monster truck race, even if it interrupts your normal routine.

 »» LOVE AND LUST : Love is selfless, timeless, and forgiving. Lust is selfish, brief, and unforgiving. In a relationship, remember to give, even as you take. Do things that satisfy your desires, but make sure the other person's desires are satisfied, too.

 »» SPEAKING AND LISTENING : Take the time to listen as much to your boyfriend as you talk at him. He may need to be taught things from time to time, but he probably knows plenty that he can teach you, too. Remember the saying: "The foolish man speaks; the wise man listens."


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 MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS TIME TO HIMSELF :- Guys are naturally independent, so give him some space by not always being on his back about things. No one likes to be constantly watched or hovered over. Go out with some girlfriends while he's out with his boys to get your mind off things. Guys tend to relieve stress and worries when talking to their friends, just like girls: Warrior Adventure Quest let the healing begin.

 »» THIS SHOWS HIM THAT YOU TRUST HIM : If you let him know he's earned your trust, he's actually less likely to throw that trust away. If you don't trust him to be responsible on his own, he could be more likely to betray that trust just because he resents not being trusted.


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 DO SOMETHING SPONTANEOUS THAT SHOWS YOUR LOVE :- The world is your oyster. Think about the things your boyfriend would love to do/get, and use that as a guide. If he's not expecting a gift or surprise, it's more likely to make a big impression.

 »» DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKE SPORTS? IS HE AN ADRENALINE JUNKY? Get the two of you a pair of tickets to a local football, or soccer game. Take him to an amusement park and ride as many roller coasters as you can in three hours.

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIEND THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC TYPE? IN TOUCH WITH HIS SENSITIVE SIDE? Get him romantic books like an old Philip Larkin or John Keats book of poetry and inscribe something on the cover: "With all my heart — the love that flows through these words is meant just for you."

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIENÐ THE OUTDOORSY TYPE? Take him for site seeing.


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 HANG WITH THE GUYS SOMETIMES :- A boyfriend loves having a girlfriend that can chill with the guys and still have fun. Joke around, be happy (even if you're not), and try to let loose. Just make sure you mingle and not flirt (that's a turn off)! And remember to give him space, a guy doesn't want to be hung on and smothered in front of his friends.


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 LEAVE A THOUGHTFULL SHORT NOTE IN HIS SHIRT POCKET :- Say something straight from the heart, and let him know how you always want to be there for him, no matter what. Make sure the note is short enough so that he doesn't feel obligated to write you something back if he's hassled by it. Try something like this:

 »» "HI DEAR, JUT WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW ABSOLUTELY SPECIAL YOU ARE TO ME : Every morning, when I wake up, I think about how lucky I am to have you. You make my head spin in a good way! I think I finally know what love is, thanks to you."

 »» "BOO! What's round and furry and handsome all over? You! Just joking around.... What can I say, you put me in such a happy mood all the time. I really hope I do for you what you do for me. Please tell me if that ever isn't the case. Thinking about you...."


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 MAKE A DATE AND GO SOMEWHERE YOU CAN TALK AND RELAX :- Have a quiet dinner, for example, and let your boyfriend know how much he means to you. Let him share some of his opinions and his feelings. Really listen to what he has to say, but offer comments to make the conversation flow. Clear some things up if you need to.

 »» GO ON DATES THAT YOU THINK HE WOULD APPRECIATE : Think of activities where you both can be close together such as: a trip to the zoo, a trip to an amusement park, a day trip to a nearby town, etc.

How to deal with your boyfriend`s random mood swings.

You're hanging out with your partner and cuddling when suddenly he gets up and leaves. You don't know why but it seems as if something you did made him go. When you ask him about it later, he says it has nothing to do with you. So how do you deal with him when he ignores you?


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ASK HIM WHAT'S WRONG :- This should always be your first response. If he tells you, then he's willing to be open and allow you to help him with whatever is bothering him. If he doesn't say and tells you it has nothing to do with you, try not to get offended. Creating more drama will not help him in this situation. Back away and give him his space for a while.


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UNDERSTAND THAT VERY OFTEN, PEOPLE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT IS THAT IS BOTHERING THEM :- So naturally it is impossible for them to tell you something they do not know themselves.


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GIVE HIM SPACE AS LONG AS HE NEEDS IT :- Sometimes a few hours and sometimes a few days is all it can take.


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LET HIM KNOW IF IT'S GETTING TO BE TOO MUCH :- Escalate your attempts to break through if this behaviour continues despite your efforts to get to the bottom of it. Tell him you care for him, but this is confusing and demoralising to you, and you are approaching the end of your ability to deal with his issues.


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BREAK THE SILENCE BY THROWING YOUR ARMS AROUND HIM AND HOLDING HIM CLOSE TO YOU :- Tell him that you care even if he doesn't want to talk, that you will still care and will be there for him if he changes his mind and wants to talk.


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GET COUNSELLING :- It may be that your partner has a clinical mood disorder. If you can get into a counselling situation, this will be recognised and help will be close at hand.


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LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP :- This may be necessary if things do not improve. Don't sentence yourself to a life of misery in which you never know what's on your guy's mind and can't depend on him to be there for you at some point. It should be a two way street, it shouldn't always be about him or you.

How to be hot around your boyfriend.

Do you ever wonder how to be sexy around your boyfriend? Boys like different types of girls. Don’t be too sexy but don’t be too boring. Remember not to put yourself into a situation where you feel uncomfortable. For the best results, read this article.


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 KEEP YOUR HAIR HEALTHY :- Wash your hair regularly with shampoo and wash it out with lukewarm water. Condition your hair on the tips, not on the scalp. Buy a good shampoo and conditioner for your hair type only. Trim your hair to avoid split ends. Protect your hair from heat damage and pick up a good hair mousse. Try out extensions if you want.


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 CREATE YOUR OWN PERSONAL STYLE, LOOK FOR INSPIRATION :- Imagine how you could combine clothes together into a style of your own. Add accessories to brighten up your outfit. Try changing the length or adding extra trimming to items that are old and dull.


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 DANCE SEXILY OR GIVE A LAP DANCE TO YOUR BOYFRIEND :- Bend down and then slide back up, wink and smile cheekily. Your partner must be sitting in a chair. Play bouncy music and walk around the chair almost like a Model.


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STRIKE A POSE, WHEN EVERYONE IS LOOKING YOUR WAY IT’S VITAL TO MAKE SURE YOUR EVERY MOVE SEEM NATURALLY GLAMOROUS AS POSSIBLE :- Flip your head up so that your hair flips behind you, try not to catch your hair in your eye.


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 WEAR MAKEUP, A SLICK OF MASCARA IS THE BEST WAY TO CREATE A FLUTTERING FRINGE TO YOUR EYES :- For a girl on the go, waterproof mascara is probably the best choice. Apply powder all over your face using a powder brush. Apply blush to the apples of your cheeks. Use a lash curler before putting on Mascara. Use lipstick or lip gloss, lip gloss is for extra shine. Wear eyeshadow if you wish. For the best results buy high quality makeup. Take notice that some boys just simply do not like girls wearing makeup.


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 JUST LIKE EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY, YOUR FACE WILL LOOK BETTER AFTER A MASSAGE :- Pour a few drops of Olive Oil onto your face and smooth it in. Stroke the sides of your face and then across your forehead.


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 SEND YOUR BOYFRIEND A FLIRTY TEXT MESSAGE :- Make your boyfriend wonder what you're up to.

Ways to keep relationship.

1.

Build trust

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 Be honest

3.

Be faithful

4.

 Be considerate

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 Respect each other

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Become best friends

7.

Be proud of one another

8.

Be there for one another

9.

Bear each other’s burden

10.

Make time for one another

11.

 Communicate to each other

12.

Trust and always pray to God

13.

Accept each other’s mistakes

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Appreciate each other’s effort

15.

Take time and study each other

How to make your girl friend jealous.

Has your girlfriend been peeving you lately? Do you feel that she's not giving you the attention you deserve? Applied judiciously, just a hint of jealousy can put that crucial "spark" back in your relationship. However, be careful - by trying to make your girlfriend jealous, you're playing with fire. If your effort backfires, you may be left without a girlfriend at all!


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 MAKE SURE SHE LOVES YOU AND HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU :- Otherwise she wouldn't care about it.


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 THINK ABOUT WHY YOU WANT TO DO IT :- Did she do anything bad to you and you just want to hurt her feelings the way that she hurt yours? Is it only because you want to know that she really loves you? Just think about it.


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 TALK OFTEN TO YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS :- If she sees you talking to girls then she might get a little jealous and you may catch her checking your logs at your phone.


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 ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS :- Say things like:

 »» "Sandra is such a nice woman, You should meet her one day."

 »» "I think Emily looks really hot in that dress!"

 »» "Have you seen Laura's new photo on Facebook? She looks wonderful."

 »» "Last night I was chatting to Mary for like an hour or so..."


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 AT THE WEEKENDS TRY TO HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS :- Have fun.


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 WHENEVER SHE TALKS TO YOU, PRETEND THAT YOU AREN'T LISTENING :- Whenever she stops talking just say things like: Aha, Right, Ok Ok, Hmm, Awesome, Yeah, Okay. BUT make sure you talk in a bored voice or just mumble it out.


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 WHEN GOING TO SOMEWHERE WITH HER, CHECK OUT SOME OTHER GIRLS :- Make sure she sees you looking at girls. 


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 IF YOU ARE GOING CLUBBING WITH OTHER GIRLS, JUST TRY IGNORING HER BUT DON'T IGNORÉ HER TOO MUCH BECAUSE IT COULD REALLY MAKE HER UPSET.


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 IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU HAVE FACEBOOK ACCOUNTS, "LIKE" AND "COMMENT" ON OTHER GIRL'S PICTURES :- Comment things like:

 »» "Wow"

 »» "Nice Pic."

 »» "You have changed a lot "


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 WHENEVER SHE ASKS YOU TO GO SHOPPING WITH HER, JUST SIMPLY SAY THAT YOU ARE TOO TIRED TO WALK OR YOU ARE TOO BUSY RIGHT NOW.


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 TRY TO GET ANOTHER GIRL TO ASK YOU OUT :- Tell her that this happened and say yes to whoever asked you out.

 »» Warning :- This makes her extremely jealous and could make you lose your chances with her!


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 IF YOU SEE SHE'S JEALOUS, IT ONLY MEANS SHÉ LOVES YOU :- Remember: A jealous girlfriend is a faithful girlfriend.