How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 3 (act sexy)

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BE BOLD :- Bold and sexy are close cousins. You can't be sexy if you're afraid try do anything wild or out of your comfort zone. To be sexy with your boyfriend, you can try being bold in the following ways:

»» If you're talking to him on the phone, surprise him with casual dirty talk. He'll be surprised and turned on by your sudden sexy mood.

»» Be open about what you want. If you're really in the mood for something, telling him what you crave. He'll respect you for sharing your true feelings and will be turned on in the process.

»» Be bold, but know when to strike. Surprising your boyfriend with something sexy is a plus, but trying to get it on when he has a bad cold or just isn't in the mood is a big no. Before you go in for the kill, ask yourself if your boyfriend is really in the mood for what you have to offer.

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BE SPONTANEOUS :- Some of the most sexy times you have with your boyfriend will be totally unplanned. Leave room for sexiness any time in your life, even if you're just having an ordinary dinner or watching a television show. Here are some ways to be spontaneously sexy:

»» If you're feeling sexy, take the initiative. Even if you're not in the middle of a sexy activity, let your man know by kissing or touching him in a subtle way. And if subtlety fails, try for some dirty talk to let him know what's on the table. He'll be more than just pleasantly surprised.

»» When he comes home from work, turn off all the lights, pull the shades, and lay naked on his desk. When he turns the lights on he will get a real surprise. However, do not do this unless you plan on further sexual activities. A guy is not going to be surprised by a naked girlfriend on his desk and then just walk away to read the newspaper.

»» Surprise him in public. Though you don't have to go for it in the back of your car or some untoward place, a special touch or kiss at the right time can show him that you're ready for more. And if you're isolated and not offending anyone, you make time for romance.

»» Remember that a good soldier is always prepared for battle. Be ready for sexy time any time. Try to keep your legs shaved, your skin washed, and your breath nice and minty as often as you can so you'll be ready to get it on.

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REMIND HIM OF HOW SEXY YOU ARE WHEN HE'S NOT AROUND :- You can be sexy with your boyfriend even when he's on the other side of the country. If you two are sexy while he's away, he'll be even more eager to return. Here are some ways to keep it sexy when he's far away:

»» If he is out of town, arrange a video chat with him. At some point during your conversation start doing a striptease. Don't take off too much too soon. Keep it a tease.

»» Send him sexy but tasteful text messages at night.

»» Give him a sexy picture to take with him, so he can be reminded of what he's missing.

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SHOW OFF YOUR SEXY BODY :- Even when you're not in the bedroom, your boyfriend should be thinking of what your body has to offer. Here are some ways to be sexy without having sex:

»» Walk in a sexy way that emphasizes your cleavage.

»» Take him clubbing or do another physical activity where you can really strut your stuff. He'll feel sexy just by looking at your body.

»» Dancing can be very erotic. Perhaps learn to belly dance or strip tease; this type of dancing will give you sexy poise and irresistible body confidence.

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HAVE SEXY FOOD :- There's a reason that "food" rhymes with "nude." The right meal can go a long way in helping you be sexy with your boyfriend.

»» Bake for him. Make your boyfriend something sweet like a cake or cookies, and then feed it to him in the nude. Your nudity will no doubt lead to further activities.

»» Give him chocolate. Kiss him while putting it into his mouth. Afterwards, simply walk away without saying anything. He will surely follow.

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TELL HIM HOW SEXY HE IS :- Don't be so busy acting sexy that you forget that your man is sexy too. Reinforce this by simply telling him exactly how sexy or manly he is.

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LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE :- Don't throw your appetiser, main course, and dessert on the table at once or your boyfriend will have a stomach ache. Instead, be subtle with your sexiness without throwing it all on the table. There's a difference between being sexy and being easy. Here are some ways to leave him wanting more:

»» Don't move right into sex after a make out session. Let him linger over your body so his passion builds.

»» Don't have sex with him every time he
wants to, unless you're in the mood, of course. Instead, be sexy when you're feeling right.

How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 2 (look sexy).

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HAVE A SEXY FACE :- In spite of what you may think, your face really is the first thing your boyfriend notices, so keep up a sexy appearance and the rest will follow.

»» If you feel comfortable wearing makeup, put on just enough to give your eyes a smoky look and your lips a nice luscious tint.

»» Give your boyfriend sexy glances. Just the look in your eyes can let him know how you really feel about him.


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WEAR UNDERWEAR THAT MAKES YOU
FEEL AND LOOK SEXY :- Knowing that you have it on can make you feel sexy, or showing your man a hint of what you have planned for later can make him excited for the rest of your night. Some sexy items include:

»» A thong, lacy underwear, a push up bra, pearls, a corset, knee-high socks, or spandex.

»» Avoid any uncomfortable fabrics that can lead to chafing, which is the opposite of sexy.


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KEEP IT SIMPLE :- You don't need to always wear designer thongs or teddies. As long as you wear something out of the norm that shows more skin, your man will think it's sexy that you're wearing it for his benefit.

»» Don't wear anything so elaborate that it will be impossible to remove. This may lead to frustration and other mishaps in the bedroom.


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LOOK PROVOCATIVE NOT TRASHY :- If your clothes are revealing more than they're hiding, your boyfriend will be embarrassed to be seen with you instead of turned on.

»» Make sure your dresses and skirts are like a good story,short enough to keep things interesting, but long enough to cover everything.

»» It's good to show a little cleavage, but not so much that most of your chest is exposed.

»» Showing a little bit of bra strap can be sexy, but exposing your entire bra is too much.


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HAVE SEXY FEET AND HANDS :- Care for your other extremities so your man will be even more excited by you.

»» Take care of your hands and fingernails so your man will be turned on when he holds them.

»» Keep your feet nice and fresh so you smell sexy in the bedroom.

How to be really sexy with your boyfriend PART 1 (Think sexy)

[ Understand that some of the things above (waiting for him naked, etc) are for people that are in a comfortable and sexual relationship. If you've only ever pecked on the lips, don't try that (yet).]

You love your boyfriend, but you're in a tricky situation. After the first few months of passion, the flames of love have been reduced to embers, and you're struggling to find a way to stay sexy. To keep things interesting, you have to embrace sexy as a way of life and learn to think sexy, act sexy, and look sexy. Read on to learn how to bring your sexy back.

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LOVE YOUR LOOKS :- If you think you look sexy, your boyfriend will think so, too. Instead of asking him for reinforcement about your looks, be proud to show off your beautiful face and body.

»» Pick at least three attributes you love about yourself, and show 'em off. If you love your legs, wear a shorter skirt, and if you think your arms are to die for, expose them in the perfect tank top.

»» Have fun with your body. Dance in front of the mirror to your favourite song, and you'll see how much fun it is to inhabit your body.

»» Be healthy. Eating right and exercising can have a positive impact on the way you think about yourself. Exercise can also be an opportunity to do something sexy with your boyfriend, like taking dance lessons.

»» Pay attention to the way you talk about your body. If you're wearing a new dress, instead of asking your boyfriend, "Do I look okay in this?" tell him, "Don't I look fabulous in this?" He'll be turned on by your love for your looks.

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BE CONFIDENT :- There's nothing sexier than showing your man how confident you are. Instead of spending time telling you that you're amazing, he'll be busy loving your natural ease with yourself, which will make you look even more sexy. Here are some ways to be confident:

»» Be aware of the things that make you a beautiful, unique, and talented individual. When you're having doubts, remind yourself of these qualities. It may even help to write them down.

»» Be confident to a point. Part of confidence is accepting that you are a flawed individual. You're already awesome, but there's always room for improvement. Your boyfriend will be impressed not only by your confidence, but by how comfortable you are in admitting you're not perfect.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

May everything happy and everything bright be mine on my birthday from morning till night. And then through the year may the same thing hold true so that each day is filled with life's best things for me!

»» HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME ««

How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 2 (Going the extra mile)

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SHOW A LITTLE SURPRISE AFFECTION :-
With guys, a little affection goes a long way, but that still doesn't mean that guys don't like it. Give him surprise kisses or surprise compliments, things that you would not normally do. It will show him that you are paying attention and actively caring for him and the relationship.

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GIVE HIM A LONG KISS ONCE A DAY :- However, don't stand there with a timer, but get a feeling for the time by experimenting alone beforehand. Kiss him on different places of his body to signal different moods.

»» A kiss on the back of the neck or behind the ear is a very intimate kiss. Get ready to have a moment!

»» A kiss on the cheek or the back of the hand is a very nurturing kiss. He'll be sure to feel warm and looked after.

»» A kiss on the mouth is one of the
surest ways to communicate your love. Kiss him gently, look into his eyes, and smile.

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GIVE HIM A LONG HUG EVERY ONCE IN A
WHILE :- Once again, don't use a timer and don't pat his back, but try to whisper "I love you" in his ears. If your boyfriend is down in the dumps about something, a warm hug will feel reassuring.

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FOR OLDER WOMEN, BE SURE TO DRESS
A LITTLE SEXY SO OFTEN :- Be sexy when it's just you two together in private. Go out and buy some sexy lingerie and give him a little show. Let him know that he still turns you on. Have a plan, since by being sexy, you just may turn him on. Know what you are going to do next.

»» Remember, especially when you're out in public, to be a lady. A sexy outfit in private is the stuff of his dreams, but no guy wants to share his girlfriend.

»» Act out a scene from a movie. Take one of his favourite movies, play the part, and make it a little sexy. He should be laughing and then crying for joy.

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BE SURE TO BE THERÉ FOR HIM IN
PERSON :- In our internet age, it's so fast and easy to connect with someone in person without even being in the same place, together. Make sure your relationship is grounded in real-life interactions and aided by the internet, instead of the other way around.

»» You can never be shy with him or he might get the wrong message. Be with him and get really comfortable in the beginning of the relationship and it shouldn't be a problem.

»» Don't forget to talk on the phone. Talking is different from texting. Even if your boyfriend isn't the most talkative person in the world, it's a good idea to talk a little bit each day. This will help build a connection and make him want to continue that intimacy that you showed with him in the beginning.

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PLAY TOGETHER :- Take a day off. Take
advantage of your new found freedom, and live like you've got one day to love.

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May your sunday be brighter than your past. May you come across with lots Of
adventure and enjoyment so that you wait for the next sunday to come so that you can enjoy it to the core. Have an exciting sunday blog visitors!

How to make your boyfriend love you more PART 1 (Building Love Through Actions).

Do you wonder if your boyfriend is falling away from you? Or do you feel like he's just not as interested in you as when you first met? Or maybe you just want to be the best girlfriend you can be. Here are some steps to take to make your boyfriend love you more.


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 FIND A BALANCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP :- Relationships are all about finding balance. Balance will help you stay in love with each other, and should keep your boyfriend from feeling suffocated, a common complaint of guys. Focus on finding a balance between the following three ideas:

 »» ROUTINE AND SPONTANEITY : Remember to make a fun routine out of some of the things you and your boyfriend love to do, but remember to switch it up. Friday movies are great, but so is going to monster truck race, even if it interrupts your normal routine.

 »» LOVE AND LUST : Love is selfless, timeless, and forgiving. Lust is selfish, brief, and unforgiving. In a relationship, remember to give, even as you take. Do things that satisfy your desires, but make sure the other person's desires are satisfied, too.

 »» SPEAKING AND LISTENING : Take the time to listen as much to your boyfriend as you talk at him. He may need to be taught things from time to time, but he probably knows plenty that he can teach you, too. Remember the saying: "The foolish man speaks; the wise man listens."


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 MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS TIME TO HIMSELF :- Guys are naturally independent, so give him some space by not always being on his back about things. No one likes to be constantly watched or hovered over. Go out with some girlfriends while he's out with his boys to get your mind off things. Guys tend to relieve stress and worries when talking to their friends, just like girls: Warrior Adventure Quest let the healing begin.

 »» THIS SHOWS HIM THAT YOU TRUST HIM : If you let him know he's earned your trust, he's actually less likely to throw that trust away. If you don't trust him to be responsible on his own, he could be more likely to betray that trust just because he resents not being trusted.


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 DO SOMETHING SPONTANEOUS THAT SHOWS YOUR LOVE :- The world is your oyster. Think about the things your boyfriend would love to do/get, and use that as a guide. If he's not expecting a gift or surprise, it's more likely to make a big impression.

 »» DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKE SPORTS? IS HE AN ADRENALINE JUNKY? Get the two of you a pair of tickets to a local football, or soccer game. Take him to an amusement park and ride as many roller coasters as you can in three hours.

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIEND THE HOPELESS ROMANTIC TYPE? IN TOUCH WITH HIS SENSITIVE SIDE? Get him romantic books like an old Philip Larkin or John Keats book of poetry and inscribe something on the cover: "With all my heart — the love that flows through these words is meant just for you."

 »» IS YOUR BOYFRIENÐ THE OUTDOORSY TYPE? Take him for site seeing.


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 HANG WITH THE GUYS SOMETIMES :- A boyfriend loves having a girlfriend that can chill with the guys and still have fun. Joke around, be happy (even if you're not), and try to let loose. Just make sure you mingle and not flirt (that's a turn off)! And remember to give him space, a guy doesn't want to be hung on and smothered in front of his friends.


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 LEAVE A THOUGHTFULL SHORT NOTE IN HIS SHIRT POCKET :- Say something straight from the heart, and let him know how you always want to be there for him, no matter what. Make sure the note is short enough so that he doesn't feel obligated to write you something back if he's hassled by it. Try something like this:

 »» "HI DEAR, JUT WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW ABSOLUTELY SPECIAL YOU ARE TO ME : Every morning, when I wake up, I think about how lucky I am to have you. You make my head spin in a good way! I think I finally know what love is, thanks to you."

 »» "BOO! What's round and furry and handsome all over? You! Just joking around.... What can I say, you put me in such a happy mood all the time. I really hope I do for you what you do for me. Please tell me if that ever isn't the case. Thinking about you...."


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 MAKE A DATE AND GO SOMEWHERE YOU CAN TALK AND RELAX :- Have a quiet dinner, for example, and let your boyfriend know how much he means to you. Let him share some of his opinions and his feelings. Really listen to what he has to say, but offer comments to make the conversation flow. Clear some things up if you need to.

 »» GO ON DATES THAT YOU THINK HE WOULD APPRECIATE : Think of activities where you both can be close together such as: a trip to the zoo, a trip to an amusement park, a day trip to a nearby town, etc.

How to deal with your boyfriend`s random mood swings.

You're hanging out with your partner and cuddling when suddenly he gets up and leaves. You don't know why but it seems as if something you did made him go. When you ask him about it later, he says it has nothing to do with you. So how do you deal with him when he ignores you?


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ASK HIM WHAT'S WRONG :- This should always be your first response. If he tells you, then he's willing to be open and allow you to help him with whatever is bothering him. If he doesn't say and tells you it has nothing to do with you, try not to get offended. Creating more drama will not help him in this situation. Back away and give him his space for a while.


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UNDERSTAND THAT VERY OFTEN, PEOPLE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT IS THAT IS BOTHERING THEM :- So naturally it is impossible for them to tell you something they do not know themselves.


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GIVE HIM SPACE AS LONG AS HE NEEDS IT :- Sometimes a few hours and sometimes a few days is all it can take.


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LET HIM KNOW IF IT'S GETTING TO BE TOO MUCH :- Escalate your attempts to break through if this behaviour continues despite your efforts to get to the bottom of it. Tell him you care for him, but this is confusing and demoralising to you, and you are approaching the end of your ability to deal with his issues.


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BREAK THE SILENCE BY THROWING YOUR ARMS AROUND HIM AND HOLDING HIM CLOSE TO YOU :- Tell him that you care even if he doesn't want to talk, that you will still care and will be there for him if he changes his mind and wants to talk.


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GET COUNSELLING :- It may be that your partner has a clinical mood disorder. If you can get into a counselling situation, this will be recognised and help will be close at hand.


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LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP :- This may be necessary if things do not improve. Don't sentence yourself to a life of misery in which you never know what's on your guy's mind and can't depend on him to be there for you at some point. It should be a two way street, it shouldn't always be about him or you.

How to be hot around your boyfriend.

Do you ever wonder how to be sexy around your boyfriend? Boys like different types of girls. Don’t be too sexy but don’t be too boring. Remember not to put yourself into a situation where you feel uncomfortable. For the best results, read this article.


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 KEEP YOUR HAIR HEALTHY :- Wash your hair regularly with shampoo and wash it out with lukewarm water. Condition your hair on the tips, not on the scalp. Buy a good shampoo and conditioner for your hair type only. Trim your hair to avoid split ends. Protect your hair from heat damage and pick up a good hair mousse. Try out extensions if you want.


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 CREATE YOUR OWN PERSONAL STYLE, LOOK FOR INSPIRATION :- Imagine how you could combine clothes together into a style of your own. Add accessories to brighten up your outfit. Try changing the length or adding extra trimming to items that are old and dull.


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 DANCE SEXILY OR GIVE A LAP DANCE TO YOUR BOYFRIEND :- Bend down and then slide back up, wink and smile cheekily. Your partner must be sitting in a chair. Play bouncy music and walk around the chair almost like a Model.


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STRIKE A POSE, WHEN EVERYONE IS LOOKING YOUR WAY IT’S VITAL TO MAKE SURE YOUR EVERY MOVE SEEM NATURALLY GLAMOROUS AS POSSIBLE :- Flip your head up so that your hair flips behind you, try not to catch your hair in your eye.


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 WEAR MAKEUP, A SLICK OF MASCARA IS THE BEST WAY TO CREATE A FLUTTERING FRINGE TO YOUR EYES :- For a girl on the go, waterproof mascara is probably the best choice. Apply powder all over your face using a powder brush. Apply blush to the apples of your cheeks. Use a lash curler before putting on Mascara. Use lipstick or lip gloss, lip gloss is for extra shine. Wear eyeshadow if you wish. For the best results buy high quality makeup. Take notice that some boys just simply do not like girls wearing makeup.


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 JUST LIKE EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY, YOUR FACE WILL LOOK BETTER AFTER A MASSAGE :- Pour a few drops of Olive Oil onto your face and smooth it in. Stroke the sides of your face and then across your forehead.


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 SEND YOUR BOYFRIEND A FLIRTY TEXT MESSAGE :- Make your boyfriend wonder what you're up to.

Ways to keep relationship.

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Build trust

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 Be honest

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Be faithful

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 Be considerate

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 Respect each other

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Become best friends

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Be proud of one another

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Be there for one another

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Bear each other’s burden

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Make time for one another

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 Communicate to each other

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Trust and always pray to God

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Accept each other’s mistakes

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Appreciate each other’s effort

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Take time and study each other

How to make your girl friend jealous.

Has your girlfriend been peeving you lately? Do you feel that she's not giving you the attention you deserve? Applied judiciously, just a hint of jealousy can put that crucial "spark" back in your relationship. However, be careful - by trying to make your girlfriend jealous, you're playing with fire. If your effort backfires, you may be left without a girlfriend at all!


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 MAKE SURE SHE LOVES YOU AND HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU :- Otherwise she wouldn't care about it.


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 THINK ABOUT WHY YOU WANT TO DO IT :- Did she do anything bad to you and you just want to hurt her feelings the way that she hurt yours? Is it only because you want to know that she really loves you? Just think about it.


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 TALK OFTEN TO YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS :- If she sees you talking to girls then she might get a little jealous and you may catch her checking your logs at your phone.


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 ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS :- Say things like:

 »» "Sandra is such a nice woman, You should meet her one day."

 »» "I think Emily looks really hot in that dress!"

 »» "Have you seen Laura's new photo on Facebook? She looks wonderful."

 »» "Last night I was chatting to Mary for like an hour or so..."


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 AT THE WEEKENDS TRY TO HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS :- Have fun.


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 WHENEVER SHE TALKS TO YOU, PRETEND THAT YOU AREN'T LISTENING :- Whenever she stops talking just say things like: Aha, Right, Ok Ok, Hmm, Awesome, Yeah, Okay. BUT make sure you talk in a bored voice or just mumble it out.


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 WHEN GOING TO SOMEWHERE WITH HER, CHECK OUT SOME OTHER GIRLS :- Make sure she sees you looking at girls. 


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 IF YOU ARE GOING CLUBBING WITH OTHER GIRLS, JUST TRY IGNORING HER BUT DON'T IGNORÉ HER TOO MUCH BECAUSE IT COULD REALLY MAKE HER UPSET.


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 IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU HAVE FACEBOOK ACCOUNTS, "LIKE" AND "COMMENT" ON OTHER GIRL'S PICTURES :- Comment things like:

 »» "Wow"

 »» "Nice Pic."

 »» "You have changed a lot "


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 WHENEVER SHE ASKS YOU TO GO SHOPPING WITH HER, JUST SIMPLY SAY THAT YOU ARE TOO TIRED TO WALK OR YOU ARE TOO BUSY RIGHT NOW.


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 TRY TO GET ANOTHER GIRL TO ASK YOU OUT :- Tell her that this happened and say yes to whoever asked you out.

 »» Warning :- This makes her extremely jealous and could make you lose your chances with her!


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 IF YOU SEE SHE'S JEALOUS, IT ONLY MEANS SHÉ LOVES YOU :- Remember: A jealous girlfriend is a faithful girlfriend.

How to Make a Man Feel Sexy.

If you are into this gorgeous guy, you'd want him to feel even sexier with you. It is not too complicated: trust your instincts and be aware of few men's features.


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 THINK HE IS SEXY :- PERIOD! Even if you have cruel plans, even if you don't really find him sexy...try to pretend to yourself you do. These things are ALWAYS mutual: you have to want him to make him want you.


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 LOOK INTO HIS EYES CLEARLY AND BRIGHTLY :- This will make him feel more "wanted", more special and make him trust you more. If you avoid eye-to- eye contact, it automatically means you're not interested. Remember the lovers that can't take their eyes off each other ... you wanna make him have this sensation even if it is going to be just an illusion.


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 TOUCH HIM, BUT CAREFULLY, NOT TOO MUCH :- Lack of physical contact will make him think you avoid touching his body, you don't really enjoy him. But don't do it too much so he doesn't get used to it: he should remember every touch. The tip is to touch him where you really want to and when you REALLY feel like..if you like his strong arms - touch them, if his back feels really good - touch the back. But don't touch the parts of his body you're not really comfortable with yet: he will feel it.


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 ALWAYS TELL HIM HE IS THE BEST :- If you've chosen this man, probably you've chosen him for something...and he will be SO appreciated if you remind him of that. Would you want someone to tell you how beautiful your hair is, how melodic your voice is, how great it is just to be next to you? Here it is...he also wants it. What did you choose him for? You feel safe with him? Say it in the right moment. You find his body really masculine? When he's taking off his t-shirt, look at his body excitedly and say: "Wow.....you are just SO sexy". If he is really good at business, don't hesitate to ask his advice: he's gonna love it when you do it right: be really interested, attentive and adore his knowledge - he's gonna want to help you more if he's enjoying it.

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Tips on how to make your man want more of you.

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 Be there for him when he needs you.


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 Be your natural self. You can't fake love.


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 Guys have feelings too. Be nice to him.


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 Make eye contact from across the room and smile or laugh, then hold the eye contact for a few seconds and quickly turn around while smiling.


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 Say what you mean, and mean what you say. No one is a mind reader.


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 Don't be shy around him, it's good sometimes when you crack a joke to make him laugh. That way he'll know that you're not one of those just-romance type of girlfriend.


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 Show that you trust and love him with your actions. Make your actions match what you say.


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 Guys love to feel strong. Compliment him on that once in a while, but don't let it get old.


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 Try to sort out disputes as quickly as possible to avoid long-term resentment creeping in. Remember not to make a big deal of little issues.


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 Always keep in touch and be there for him so he knows that you care and he will care for you in the same way.


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 Remember to be nice.


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 Let him know that he's all that matters. Guys tend to be underestimated by other guys.


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 Tell him "I love you" every once in a while.

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 Remember to try to look nice every day. Boys will like girls that have good personal hygiene.


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 Don't get carried away when he compliments. Keep a warm receptive and a smiley face.


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 Don't smother him, give him his space and don't get mad if he wants to hang with the boys every now and then.


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 Be yourself around him.


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 Show your boyfriend new things everyday, role play and do the unexpected to keep things interesting.


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 Play around with him. Go with the flow.


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 Avoid jealousy or asking him about his love for other girls.


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 Don't constantly ask him why he loves you or he'll get annoyed.


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 Don't always expect him to come over, sometimes we just need our free time. He will always like you but if there is too much of you then he will get tired.


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 Use a catchy perfume. It will make him go crazy for you.


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 Always hang out when he is busy rather than sticking around.


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 Lastly "don't cheat on him". Please ladies, always remember this.


                       »» Warning ««


 Don't over-do it. If he feels pressured or like you're too clingy, he will become more and more distant.

Six points on how to start a relationship.

Do you want to start a new relationship? Here are six points on how to start a relationship.


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 BE AWESOME AT ANYTHING :- if you're smart, show it off; if you're funny, make people laugh; if you are good at sports, give a demonstration . Let people know how you are different. Look far and wide. If you find yourself without 'any prospects', then you are probably not looking in the right places. Think of what you like to do that defines who you are. Ask yourself, 'where would someone meet me?' If you're into sports or exercise, then look into places where people do those things.


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 LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO YOU CAN EASILY TALK TO :- The most important part of any type of relationship is communication. If you cannot communicate effectively with your partner, your relationship will probably not go far.


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 TALK TO THE PERSON :- Most people do not like to jump straight into a relationship. Find a reason to talk to the person. Try to have an engaging, interesting conversation to determine if you and the other person are compatible.


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 BE YOURSELF :- Give the other person an honest representation of yourself. Mistrust and deceit could ultimately harm your relationship.


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 TAKE THINGS SLOWLY :- There is no need to rush into a relationship. If you move too quickly, the other person may be turned off. Try to continue doing your normal routine, with them in mind, rather than changing your whole life around them.


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 TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS :- When you feel comfortable enough to ask the other person to be your boyfriend or girlfriend, discuss it with that person and see if he or she feels the same way.

How to make a relationship last PART 3 ( keep moving forward )

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 FIND NEW INTERESTS TO PURSUE TOGETHER :- A relationship is like a shark, if it doesn’t move forward, it dies. You should find ways of keeping your relationship fresh so your love doesn’t become just a part of your routine. One way of doing this is to find new interests that you can pursue together, so you have something to be excited about as well as a shared passion.

 »» Take a weekly dance class together. This will give you some great exercise and will increase your passion for each other.

 »» Find a new hobby together. Try taking a painting or singing class, or find a new love for driving.

 »» Take a class together. Try learning a new language or taking a history class together.

 »» Train for a race together. This is a great way to get closer, whether you’re training for a 5K or a marathon.

 »» Do anything out of your comfort zones. Try dancing, driving, or even fishing. Doing something completely unfamiliar will bring you closer together.


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 KEEP IT FRESH IN THÉ BEDROOM :- If you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then you have to maintain a healthy sex life. Though your lovemaking may not be what it was in the beginning after five years together, you should still try new things in the bedroom so you’re still excited about making love with your partner and that everything you do still feels like an adventure.

 »» Make love in new positions. Don’t do the same old thing you’ve been doing, even if it works. You can even look up new positions together, which will be great for foreplay.

 »» Make love in new places. Don’t always go for the bedroom, try the couch, the kitchen table, or even check in to a hotel in the middle of the day.

 »» Try going to a sex store to pick up some kinky items to bring into bed.


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 TAKE A TRIP TO A NEW PLACE TOGETHER :- Though a vacation isn’t a good long- term solution to any relationship problems, taking a trip together can help take you out of your same old perspective and appreciate your love in a new way. Plus, planning a trip together will give you something new to look forward to.

 »» Plan the trip you’ve always wanted to take. If you’ve both been talking about going to Lagos together for the last seven months and you have the funds for it, it’s time to make your dreams a reality.

 »» Take a short day trip. Even driving an hour out to spend a day on the or the beach can make your relationship feel fresher.

 »» Take a second honeymoon. If you’re already married and had a honeymoon, take another honeymoon to commemorate your love.

How to make a relationship last PART 2 ( maintaining strong communication ).

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 BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER :- Honesty is the key to any long-lasting relationship. To keep your relationship strong, you should be able to be open and honest with your special someone. You should be able to share your most intimate thoughts and feelings with your loved one, or you’re not really communicating.

»» Don’t be afraid to tell your loved one if he/she disappointed you. Being honest about your feelings will help you work through the problem, and is far better than being passive aggressive if you’re upset about something.

»» Share your feelings with your loved one. If you’re really upset about something that happened at work or something your mother said, then don’t keep it all inside.

»» Know when not to say something. Though honesty is almost always the best policy, you don’t have to share every little feeling with your loved one. For example, if you don’t like his new shirt or think one of his new friends is kind of annoying, you may want to keep it to yourself.

»» Time your honesty. If you want to open up about something important, make sure you do it when your loved one has time to talk and is relatively unstressed. Your news will be better received if he has time to listen.

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 LEARN TO COMPROMISE :- In any strong relationship, being happy should be more important than being right. If you want your relationship to last, then you should learn how to make decisions with your loved one, and to find a way for both of you to be happy with the decisions, or to take turns giving in to each other. Here’s how to do it:

 »» When you’re making a decision, have your loved one rate how important it is to him/her on a scale of 1 to 10, and then state how important it is to you. Then talk about why it’s so important to both of you, and what you can do to make it matter less.

 »» Be thoughtful. When the two of you are making a decision, take the time to discuss the pros and cons and what you can do to meet halfway.

»» Take turns giving in on small decisions. If you picked the restaurant for date night, let your girl pick the movie.

»» Make sure both people are compromising. It’s not a compromise if your boy/girl is always giving in to what you want in the end because you’re more persistent.

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LEARN TO SAY YOU’RE SORRY :- This is an important point. If you want to be in a long-lasting relationship, then you absolutely have to learn how to say you’re sorry from time to time. When it comes to a relationship, admitting you’re sorry is much more important than being stubborn.

»» Learn to apologise if you’ve done something wrong. It may take you some time to realize that you made a mistake, but once you do, say that you’re sorry for what you’ve done.

 »» Make sure you mean it. Be sincere and make eye contact. It won’t mean anything if you’re just saying you’re sorry because you have to.

 »» Learn to accept your loved one’s apology. If he/she truly means it, then you should stop sticking to your guns, accept the apology, and move on.

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 TELL YOUR LOVED ONE HOW MUCH HE MEANS TO YOU :- Don’t ever forget to say “I love you” and take your feelings for granted. You should tell your loved one that you love him every single day, multiple times a day, if you can. Remember that there’s a difference between “love you” and “I love you”. You should really mean it when you say it.

 »» Always compliment your loved one. Tell him/her how great he/she looks in her new dress or how much you love him/her smile.

 »» Always thank your loved one. Don’t take his/her favors and kind actions for granted.

 »» Always tell your loved one how special he/she is. Don’t ever forget to make him/her feel unique.

How to make a relationship last PART 1( making out time for each other )

Starting a relationship is always fun and exciting, but making a relationship last is hard work. Once you’ve gotten settled in your relationship, you have to maintain an honest flow of communication and to continue to cherish your time with your loved one. Making a relationship last isn’t always fun, but the benefits of maintaining a long-term and committed relationship far outweigh the difficulties that you may face. If you want to know how to make your relationship last, just follow these tips.

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 MAKE OUT TIME FOR ROMANCE :- Though “date night” may sound forced, you and your special someone should aim to have a date night at least once a week, if not more often. You don’t have to call it “date night” if that sounds too cheesy, but you should make a goal to spend some quality time together without anyone else around at least one night a week.

 »» You can do this same thing during date night, such as cooking dinner together and then going to the movies, or spice it up and do something new every time. If you’re staying in, maintain a romantic atmosphere by lighting some candles and playing some soft music.

 »» Whatever you do, make sure you have time to really talk during your special time together. You won’t be able to talk much if you’re just going to a party or loud concert together.

»» Learn to say no to others during “date night.” Your girlfriends may be begging you to come out to the bars, but if you’ve scheduled a date night, tell them you can’t make it and make plans for next week. Things will break down if “date night” is the thing you’re always willing to give up.

 »» You should always look nice, tell each other how much you love each other, and compliment each other throughout the night.

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 MAKE LOVE AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK :- You don’t have to plug this into your calendar, and hopefully you won’t have to, but you should make a conscious effort to make love at least once a week, no matter how tired you feel after work, or how much you have going on that week.

 »» Making love is a way to maintain your intimacy and to grow closer to your partner.

 »» You should also spend some time just cuddling and kissing each other, so you don’t feel like you’re just checking “sex” off of your to-do list.

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 MAKE OUT TIME TO TALK :- Though your schedules may get crazy, you need to make a concerted effort to talk to each other every day, no matter how much work you have to do. You can set aside time to talk during dinner, or to talk over the phone if your loved one is away.

 »» Make a habit of knowing what your loved one’s day was like. Though you don’t have to bore each other with every little detail of your lives, you should become comfortable with each other’s routines.

 »» If you’re spending a week apart, set aside at least fifteen minutes a day to catch up and to remind your loved one how much you love and miss him/her.

 »» When you do talk, there should be no distractions. You’re not really talking if you’re also watching the game or checking your phones.

Keys to having a long and happy relationship.

This is your easy universal guide to maintaining a long and happy relationship together with your love. This is about many things, but it is never about being one sided or demanding. Don't allow your self to be a control freak or fearful and paranoid, but be open and cheerful. It's about how the two of you do this and continue it. (1)

 CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER WISELY :- Having similar tastes, hobbies, temper and goals in life is very important even though you will be opposite in some nice ways. If you two have different relationship goals, you should try to find different partners. It will eventually lead to mild and even harsh conflicts, but even these type of conflicts will help both you and your significant other at the time decide what they really want in a relationship, nothing is ever a waste of time. But without compatibility in your basics it is very hard to maintain a happy relationship. If one is always "going, rushing and imagining" but the other (no matter how lovely) always wants to "stay, stop or forget it all" it is very very hard to be together and make things work for long run.

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 BE HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING ALWAYS :- Even in the smallest matter, being honest is the most important thing in a relationship. Secrets or dishonesty is like poisonous venom from a deadly snake that will bite you both... when it comes crawling out and it will.

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 NEVER CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER :- Imagine what you would feel if they cheated on you. Would you really want them to feel that way? Could you ruin every month/year you've spent together? Could you break their heart? Keep in mind, that cheating could do permanent damage to your partners self confidence and could ruin their love life completely forever. You will never be trusted again, no matter how you excuse yourself. Is sex really worth ruining your relationship? If you don't feel happy with your partner, break up first.

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 BE OPEN AND INFORMATIVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN :- Privacy is something that couples need to be completely open about and know exactly what the other expects from them and talk about the issues that you might have. As the relationship continues and those initial boundaries are changing then revise them and eventually in a perfect relationship would have absolutely nothing private from there other, but nothing is perfect so beyond absolutely everything make sure to talk to your partner in full about things and respect the others wishes.

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 RESPECT THE NEED OF YOUR PARTNER :- Keep your wants balanced with theirs. This way no one gets constant advantage. But everyone stays happy.

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 KEEP THEIR BIRTHDAY AND YOUR ANNIVERSARY IN MIND :- This is really important!

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 IF YOU WANT TO MAKE THEM HAPPY, DO SOMETHING YOU KNOW THEY LIKE, OR SOMETHING THEY ALWAYS WANTED TO DO BUT NEVER COULD :- Don't feel like you need a reason to do something for them, things completely out of the blue are sometimes exactly what the other wants. Doing something together is always the best choice though.

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 DON'T EXPECT, BUY OR EVEN REQUEST VALUABLE GIFTS :- These can really poison a relationship if one person seems to be a gold digger. Discuss before hand with your other on what might be OK to spend without having any ideas of items or prices before hand. Plus, if you really put your mind to it the best gifts come from the heart and don't cost an arm and a leg but possibly even free!

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 SPEND AS MUCH TIME TOGETHER AS YOU CAN, BUT AVOID FUSION OR CONFUSION OF YOUR INDIVIDUAL GOALS WITH THE OTHER PERSON'S GOALS :- You will fuse family goals such as for having children together, but not you core needs and beliefs. Neither person should lose reasonable and long standing individual ambitions or goals.

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 BEFORE YOU BECOME IMPATIENT OR UNREASONABLE TRY TO RUN THE, "DO THEY DESERVE MY UNLOADING ON THEM ?" PROGRAM :- No matter what the answer is to that question - No! They don't deserve a "piece of your mind." Be fair by being patient, and ask for patience. Keep calm, this is the key to being happy together. Everyone can have a hard day, or week. All it takes is a huge breath in and out and let your mind do the talking not your mouth (think about what your going to say before you say it).

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 IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP, VERY LITTLE SHOULD BE TABOO :- Simply, if you are both sensible--anything that you think about might be worth talking about with your partner. Yet an extremely talkative person can drive a partner to distraction and to need a getaway to have some peace and quiet (opposites don't always attract if both or either one is too intrusive or self-centred).

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 DON'T DESPISE OR BE CRUEL ABOUT ANY MANNERISMS OR HABITS THEY HAVE :- Don't force them to do or not do anything. If it is too unacceptable to you then you should decide what is right or wrong for yourself. If they need or ask for your help with changing their bad habit, then you should be as supportive as you can without becoming an enabler.

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 REJECTING THE INSIGNIFICANT LITTLE THINGS THAT THE OTHER DOES IS PART OF A RELATIOSHIP :- Don't try to change your partner (don't be his parent or psychologist). Realize that people have habits and mannerisms that is part of who they are. You will not be able to make them stop and you should love them for who they are. If an issue is significant, like someone who is demanding or belittling, maybe you should rethink the relationship.

Things both of you must do to keep a healthy relationship.

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 REVIVE DATE-NIGHT :- Going on dates, even if you've been in a relationship for years, is still important. In fact, it's especially important for couples who have been together long enough to grow comfortable. Try to go on a date at least once every month. Some couples make it a priority to go on one date every week.

» If you're having trouble imagining date ideas, try recreating a date you had with your partner early on in your courtship. Do exactly the same thing (s), or put a spin on the date by reinventing it in a significant way.

 » Do something new and exciting. Doing something that gets your blood flowing and your heart rate up enhances feelings of togetherness between partners. If you're feeling brave, go on dates that makes you feel like a kid all over again: going to a comedy club, taking a cooking class, or test-driving a new car, to name only a few.

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 PRACTICE FORGIVENESS :- Forgiveness is a decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. It's about taking control of your current situation, as you must offer it to your partner as much as you demand it from them.

» Remember who forgiveness really benefits. Forgiving your partner absolves him or her, but it also frees you from carrying around anger and resentment. Don't view it as an entirely altruistic act — it's something you're doing for both of you.

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 LAUGH TOGETHER :- Laugh at one another with the security of love. Laughter helps the world go 'round, and it may with your relationship, too. Laughter helps your body burn calories, increase blood flow, strengthen the immune system, and lowers blood sugar levels.

 » Laughter can be comforting, infectious, or an aphrodisiac, and many things in between. Don't forget to laugh.

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 SUPPORT EACH OTHER :- Being supportive means making your partner's happiness and well-being a priority, in ways big and small. Keep in mind that part of why you're together in the first place is that you're each other's biggest fans, so make sure you act like it. Try demonstrating your support in these ways:

 » Be a good listener. If your partner needs you to lend an ear, do it willingly. You don't always need to come up with a solution, just support.

 » Offer encouragement. If your partner is trying to make a positive change, start a new hobby, or undertake a difficult challenge, be his or her biggest cheerleader.

 » Provide a safe place. Allow your partner to be vulnerable in front of you without fear of judgment.

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 DEVOTE TIME TO EACH OTHER :- Make spending time with your partner a priority, even if it's a little inconvenient at first. Relationships need shared experiences to grow, and you're demonstrating that nurturing yours is important to you.

 » Take up a hobby. Learning something new together can help you grow closer, as well as discovering a leisure activity you both enjoy. Try sports like tennis or basketball, learning a new language, cooking, crafting, or whatever else you've been wanting to try.

 » Find small ways to serve each other. Doing small acts of service for your partner shows that you're aware of what he or she needs, and you're willing to help out. It doesn't have to be an extravagant gesture: make dinner, take care of a small errand, or offer a foot rub at the end of the day. Don't make it a big deal, and don't automatically expect payback.

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DEVELOP BETTER COMMUNICATION :- Most people aren't born great communicators — it's something nearly everyone has to work at. The way you talk to your partner might seem small, but you do it several times a day and it does have an effect. Consider these fixes:

 » Don't use directive language. Try to keep phrases like "you should" or "you can't" out of your relationship. You and your partner are equals, and neither one of you should have the authority to direct the other.

 » Relay your expectations. If you expect your partner to do something, say it. Don't expect that he or she should read your mind, and don't rely on hints. Being clear about what you want gives your partner a fair shot at succeeding. (And keep the above point in mind: instead of "You should take the garbage out every day," say "I'd really like it if you took the garbage out every day.")

 » Say "please" and "thank you." You should be able to let loose around your partner, so there's no need to worry about having impeccable manners all the time. The exception to this is asking nicely and expressing gratitude when your partner does something — don't just assume he or she knows how you meant it.

 » Fight fair. Don't just let all these good communication skills go out the window during an argument. Try to get your point across in a loving, respectful way that doesn't seek to hurt your partner. If he or she insists on yelling or throwing insults, quietly request a calmer attitude.

Things you must do to keep a healthy relationship!

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 Take responsibility for your own happiness. Save yourself several hours of arguing by remembering this one rule: it's not up to anyone else to make you happy. In a relationship your partner will try to please you and make you happy but in the end you are responsible for your happiness.

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 Make good on your words. Follow through on your promises. When you say you're going to do something, do it. Don't say that you'll cook dinner, or get a birthday present, and then blow it off or simply forget about it. What this does is systematically destroy trust. And relationships need trust in order to thrive.

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 Admit your mistakes. If you know you've done something to hurt your partner, intentionally or not, own up to it. Humble yourself and apologise sincerely, without making excuses or justifications like "I'm sorry you made me angry." Commit to changing your behaviour. If you notice yourself apologising for the same mistake over and over, step it up a level. Tell your partner that you recognise this mistake keeps happening, and you want to train yourself to stop. Request help and ask for him or her to gently point it out to you when you're making this mistake again.

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 Be realistic. Every relationship has disagreements and days when staying isn't the easiest choice. But what makes a relationship healthy is choosing to resolve those problems and push through the hard days, instead of just letting issues and resentment fester. Review your expectations. Do you see your partner as a person, with both winning qualities and flaws, or as someone you expect to be perfect? If your expectations are so astronomical that no one could live up to them 100% of the time, you're setting up your relationship for failure. Accept that conflict happens. If you expect to be in a long-term relationship, you're bound to have the occasional disagreement. Remember that one argument isn't the end of everything, and there's no person on earth that you'd agree with all the time. Always ask yourself whether you're better off in the relationship than out of it. If you don't think you're better off in the relationship, then you probably should have a serious discussion with your partner. In a loving relationship, this question almost always gets a simple "Yes."

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 Listen to your partner. Sometimes, all your partner wants is for you to lend an ear and be sympathetic about one of their problems. Other times, your partner wants you to actively give them advice. Know which one your partner is looking for, and try to give them what they want. Being a good listener is all about paying attention to what they're saying and not blowing it off. Listening to your partner will enhance your relationship in many ways. It will help you resolve differences without arguing; let you explore each other's personality more deeply; and even help you pick out an awesome Christmas present. There are no downsides to listening.

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 Show your affection in whatever way you can. There's a difference between knowing that you're loved and feeling that you're loved. Sometimes, we bank on the fact that our partners should know that we love them even when we don't show it. Don't rely on this too much. The best relationships use affection to show love. Do something for your partner that you know he/she will truly appreciate. Whether it means getting up early to mow the lawn, taking the kids to karate, or baking that nutella shortcake, it's often the little favours that say the most. Don't be afraid to show physical affection every once in a while. Loving relationships feed off of the little kisses, hugs, and back-rubs that are mainstays of affection. Do the unexpected. It's one thing to kiss your partner after you come home from work; it's another thing to kiss your wife while you're skydiving, falling 10,000 feet from a plane. It's the thought that counts, so put a little effort into it for huge returns.

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 Be loyal. Make sure he/she knows that you will always be there for him/her. Put him/her first in your life as much as you possibly can. Not that you have to only see him/her ever, or never talk to anyone else, but he/she should know that he/she can always count on you if he/she needs something. Also, expect the same loyalty from him/her. You deserve to feel prized in the relationship just as much as him/her.

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 Do not ever hide anything from him/her. Especially your feelings about him/her and your relationship - whether good or bad! This way you will be able to overcome all the difficulties and challenges together. If something bad happened in your past that still affects you in the present, he/she needs to know about it. Note: you should be able to discuss your sexual history. It is an obligation before you decide to be sexually involved with your partner. But you should make them feel safe and not judgmental and you should expect the same from your partner.

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Give him/her some space. Everyone needs their own privacy and some freedom, so don't constantly watch everything he/she does. Everyone hates to be watched, stifled and controlled. Do not ever spy on him/her (reading his/her phone, stalking him/her on social networks, following him/her around). If he/she is cheating on you, you will find out. These things cannot be kept secret for very long. But if you spy on him/her and he/she is innocent, you will lose his trust and respect forever.

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 Express your feelings towards him/her. Always remind him/her of how much they mean to you, and what they represent to you. Women are not the only ones who need expressions of love and care, men need that too. If you have a problem, you need to let him/her know - preferably in a clear and calm manner without any yelling. If he says "Are you OK?" and you answer yes, do not expect him to understand that you really meant no. Be honest and open. Let him/her know it is safe to open up to you about what he is feeling. Reward his/her trust in you by sympathizing with him/her and, but you don`t need to say much, just listen. Don't be afraid to lose him/her or spend every minute fearing the huge pain that that might cause you. Enjoy each wonderful moment as it happens, and realize that there will never be another one just like it. Never be pathetic and needy just to make him/her pay attention to you and give you sympathy. A solid relationship should be based on mutual respect; if you are constantly trying to pull him/her down with you, this means you don`t respect him /her enough to want him/her to be happy. If you are depressed, see a doctor - don`t pull some guy/girl into your problems.

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 Encourage him/her. So that he/she can be more successful at work or study. That will make him/her realise how much you care about his/her future and wish that he/she'd become one of the best. It will also make his/her feeling towards you grow even stronger, and he/she will believe that you're ready to support him/her on anything he/she does.

How to Have a Healthy Relationship.

Sometimes relationships can seem like a lot of work until you sit back and realize just how much you've been given. A thriving, healthy relationship requires some give and take, and is absolutely within your reach if you and your partner are willing to do a bit of work. If you and your partner are right for each other, all the work will definitely be worth it in the long run.